Your “locus of evaluation” is a very sophisticated way of just saying “what you base your assessment on”… and in Counselling, this is commonly tied to the assessments you make of yourself…
And we assess ourselves constantly! Often without even realising!!
In short, are we looking to others to validate our self worth?
So let’s dig into this for a brief spell, because what’s happening is actually fascinating when you start to take it all apart for close inspection!